Chat-About Checklist
Chat-About Checklist
Your Life
Tell those you love that you love them ~ Share what’s important to you ~
Impart wisdom from lessons learned ~ Give out thank you’s
Unfinished
Revisit regrets: Clear your conscience with confessions ~ Offer apologies ~ Allow forgiveness of others ~ Plan and live your dreams
Thoughts on Death
Ponder your beliefs in an afterlife ~ Reflect on your religious/spiritual philosophy ~ Discuss any concerns about death/dying
Legal Issues
Create your will/trust ~ Put in place a living will &/or powers of attorney ~ Name executor & proxy and review your wishes
Medical Wishes
Discuss and put in writing thoughts on: life support/d-n-r directives ~ Organ donation ~ Autopsy ~ Give copies of AMDs to family and doctors
Last Days
Envision: Where are you? Who’s near? What surrounds you? ~ Would you like hospice care? ~ Who should your loved ones notify at the end?
Service
Plan: Which would you prefer burial or cremation? ~ What sort of service/ memorial? ~
Have arrangements been made? ~ Any extra touches?
Loved Ones & Stuff
Establish guardians for your kids (& pets) ~ Consider granting a blessing to remarry ~
Who do you want to inherit your money & stuff?
Information
List your vital stats ~ Where are the important papers? ~ Who are the need-to-know people?
~ Where are the keys/any other pertinent items?
Lastly
Leave some love behind ~ How do you want to be remembered? ~ What do you want your legacy to be? ~ Convey any last wishes...
MY LAST WISHES . . . by ~ Joy Meredith Copyrighted material. All rights reserved.